Baby to solve things, or fix it then baby
A lot of people seem to think that having a baby will fix a relationship or marriage. While in some cases I think that's true, more often it backfires, from what I've seen.
I'm just curious where you ladies fall... Do you think you can have a baby to solve things or do you think you have to solve your relationship problems pre-baby? Why?
And besides, it's not fair to put the onus of fixing a relationship on a baby. You have a baby because you WANT a BABY. Not to fix things.
A baby can cause a lot of stress, both emotional and financial. A marriage needs to be repaired before adding children are considered.