I am in disbelief !!

I just seeing a video on FB of a C.SECTION procedure, so you have all kind of ppl commenting " WOW" , " MY respect for those women" ect. but there was one that said
" in my opinion women that have there babies by a cesarean are not real mothers, they don't know how it feels to be in labor for hours!"

I had both of my children by c.section not because i wanted to but of a health condition i have, what about those women that are in labor for hours and at the last minute have to rush them to get a c.section!!! I AM MORE THAN A WOMAN AND A MOTHER TO MY KIDS no one know what's after that c.section they had being women that die in the process!! some ppl are ignorant and just don't know what else to say in an event like this!!! PLEASE FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO HAD A NORMAL BIRTH EXCELLENT BUT FOR THOSE OF US THAT HAD A C.SECTION MY RESPECT TO US THAT WE GO THRU TWICE THE SUFFERING!! DO YOUR RESEARCH JUST DON'T TALK JUST TO TALK!!!


Ever LopezFlushing, New York
    Try not to let that person bother you, they clearly have no idea. We are all mothers whether we gave birth to our children or adopted our children. None of us are better than another. We need to build each other up instead of tearing each other down.
      4Ariel LaCoste
      amen!!! I've had 4 CS. And not because its what I wanted. I labored for 18 hours with my first and had it end in a CS because of medical intervention and then it was the "once a CS, always a CS"......I have fought to try to have a natural birth just to have the medical community tell me that they get to decide what I do with my body and how I birth. Birth doesnt always work out the way we plan. And if it werent for my experiences with my CS then I wouldnt be so passionate about a womans birth rights. I advocate to get women that natural birth, so some good came of my situation. But shame on anyone for telling any mother that had a CS they arent real mothers. I know quit a few ladies who had natural births that are really crappy moms. My children are my life. ANd it definitely wasnt my choice to have my child yanked out of my body. Some people need to put the shoe on the other foot before they open their mouth. This reminds me of a time I saw someone post that if you didnt breast feed your child then you are a crappy mother. I gave her a piece of my mind. Not every one can nurse their children. I have 4 kids, successfully breastfed 3 of them. Im still nursing my youngest who is almost 2. However, my youngest son just couldnt nurse. After two months of me trying to nurse him he had put on no weight so I had to supplement with formula which led to him taking formula full time. I JUST COULDNT. I just cant stand how closed minded people are. You have to remember every situation is unique and every person has their struggles. So no judgement.
        Well I would say it is just someone looking to get attention. My child had a very good chance of not making it if I didn't have a c-section. Having him naturally would have been selfish in my opinion. I chose to listen to my doctor and have the c-section because I AM a real mother and the only thing that mattered was getting my baby here the safest way possible. I wouldn't let it get to you.
          Ever Lopez
          THANK YOU ALL my lovely ladies! i had being so emotional after that i am not sure if is my pregnancy hormones getting to me or just knowing that are ppl that actually think like this about such a hard subject!! I am trying to just let it be but i just wanted to let it out and feel better now that you all have such a supportive feed back! ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU LOVELY LADIES! each and everyday i LOVE this page!
          About Ever Lopez
          Current: Flushing, New York
          Birth: June 29
          On Moms.com since: Jul 30, 2014
          Mommy of 3 boys! Stay home mom , lots of adventures, And now a Team player (pregnancy) for moms.com