Trying to Stay Positive...But It's Soooo Hard: :(

I really really am trying to stay positive, & have a good attitude about everything, but it's really starting to get hard to do. After trying for a baby for 5yrs with my husband & having no luck (nothing wrong with either of us)...yet you have all these girls (not trying to offend anyone), but you have all these girls who bounce from guy to guy & they don't want kids end up pregnant by a dude they've been with for maybe a month. It's just NOT fair!!! It's just really hard not to give up. I mean I'm excited for those who have been trying to have a baby & I know would make great parents (yes it kinda bums me out even with them, but I'm excited for them), but it just really depresses me when people who don't want kids or is with a guy for a whole month gets pregnant. :(

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    08/28/14
    Melissa Middleton
    I understand that completely. I was once there wondering why. And so was a co-worker of mine who had tried for seven years. We wondered why those who didn't want kids got pregnant and those who partied and slept around got pregnant so easily. It was not fair. I wish I could snap my fingers and you'd be pregnant. I want to cry right now with you because I understand the pain, even though I did get pregnant.
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    08/28/14
    I'm so glad you got pregnant, & thank you so much. Like I said I try to stay positive, but it gets really hard. Makes me just wanna break down & scream.
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      08/28/14
      8Theresa Gould
      What you are feeling is normal. I hope and pray baby news is in the very near future for you and your husband! Hugs.
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        08/31/14
        I feel you, Sarah, really... I get depressed about it too some days. I know nothing is really all that comforting in this situation, so hugs and baby dust to you.
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        About Sarah Brinkley
        Current: Union City, Tennessee
        Birth: August 12
        On Moms.com since: Jul 21, 2014
        I've been w/my husband almost 7yrs & married for almost 6. We'd been trying since we got married to have a baby, & it just wasn't happening. We had both went to the doctor & nothing was wrong w/either of us. I had given up, but now we are finally pregnant.