How long 'til you took the plunge?
How long do you normally think or talk about something before you make a decision... I mean like the major parts of life--marriage, having kids, etc.
Hubby and I talked about marriage for over a year before we actually went through with it. We talked about kids for several years before we started taking supplements to try, but we "didn't prevent" for a long time. That one just kind of evolved, instead of being an "Okay, let's have kids." conversation. We only had that one before I started taking supplements.
What about you? How much deliberation do you put behind big decisions?
We are also planning to start trying to have a baby next year.
I like just going for it sometimes. Other times.. I like to take my time and plan! :)
We have always taken the "life happens while you are planning" stance. We got engaged in March 2011 and were Married 21 April 2011. Then 14 April 2012 we had our boy. We did talk about having another baby because it will have a huge impact on our son but we always knew we wanted lots of children together.