conception has it brought you and yours closer or not?
myself and my man it started out a bit rough but now it seems we are closer and even before my tubal. he is the oldest of nine kids ,some here and the others in Mexico, but I grew up depending on myself pretty much. So it has been rough for us as a couple. I am not used to everyone knowing or having to know all that I do and it is normal for him so it has been really rough for me. I raised two of my older boys alone. he has never been alone for anything at all. So we passed a bit of fighting because I just do not like them in my private things (his siblings) they have to know it all a bought each other and I just cannot live this way. I am very weird I guess. So yesterday he did all the talking until 1:00 a.m. about how this is our thing together and they all have their own kids and if we conceive how he is gonna be an awesome dad just watch and see he says . oh, And about not being negative to one or the other when we are talking to not hurt any feelings. Anyway moms it was a heart warming feeling .