Curious & Not Trying to Offend Anyone:

I am just very curious & not trying to offend anyone so if you find the following question too offensive let me know & I will delete it...........So I'm sitting on facebook because my insomnia is being a real b**** tonight, & I came across a post from a member on one of the pregnancy groups who is very upset about her husband watching porn.. I was surprised to see how many women look at it as a form of cheating...just wondering do you get upset about your husbands watching it?

    Yes. And in my opinion it is cheating (and my husband agrees). You don't have to touch to have lust and lust is just as unfaithful as physical contact.
    Pornography is what started the decline in my last marriage. I don't know a person who doesn't see a good looking somebody of the opposite sex and have a thought run through heads, but in my experience it's a lot better on your marriage to fight those thoughts.
      CAUTION POSSIBLE TMI in COMMENT...............I've never really looked at it as cheating, but I think I can understand those who do. My husband & I have been together almost 6yrs & married for 5. He don't watch porn hardly at all, & when he does we watch it together (it's not often either). Neither of us have been aroused by it, (he's never watched & got hard nor have I watched & got wet), but I did pick up a few pointers & so did he.
      That's what my husband & I do the very few times we watch it is make fun of the women who fake it lol.
      About Sarah Brinkley
      Current: Union City, Tennessee
      Birth: August 12
      On since: Jul 21, 2014
      I've been w/my husband almost 7yrs & married for almost 6. We'd been trying since we got married to have a baby, & it just wasn't happening. We had both went to the doctor & nothing was wrong w/either of us. I had given up, but now we are finally pregnant.