How do you handle divorce with a one year old?

So my son's father and I are divorcing. His nasty and abusive behavior is worrying me that it is starting to affect my son and his development. Also the going back and forth between homes I feel is starting to talk a toll on him. Every time I get my son back from his father I have to reprogram him and it is hard. Also dad is fighting me to for sole custody because he does not want to pay cold support. He never lifted a finger while we were together to take care of my son and now he wants to be father of the year. I just want to know how some moms deal with this and how to not let this affect my sons development. What can I do to make it easier for him.

    8Theresa Gould
    I'm sorry you are going through this. I do not have any advice, unfortunately.
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