jealousy ....

i have a extreme issue with pregnant girls/women like ill leave a room with pregnant women in it i have been trying for such a long time and its almost been a year and im having zero luck. i have done everything people say to do and i cant seem to get pregnant and i think that's making me full of envy for others who are having there third fourth or fifth child and i cant even have my second. im pretty sure i have nothing wrong with me like cervics and what not because i come from a house of four other sisters and i feel bad because i let my self get upset and almost cry on spot pretty much because im having such a hard time conceiving and again i have tried all the tips and what not

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    09/08/14
    I totally understand how you feel,14 years ago when my sister had her first baby I was jealous;I really wanted a family too and I wasn't even dating any good prospect.I finally got married almost 6 years ago and after 3 miscarriages I had a full term pregnancy at 42.my lesson was I had to wait,I got obsess with the idea for quite some time and when I finally let it go it happened.My baby just turned 1 year old.My advised,relaxed and enjoy your life,the next baby will come when you less expect it.Hugs
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      09/08/14
      I totally understand. I've been trying for several years. The first time my husband and I looked at a house to buy with a realtor.. (A special little milestone for me...) The realtor brought in his *#$(%&#ing pregnant wife. I was like... ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!
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        09/08/14
        8Theresa Gould
        I think you are pretty normal in feeling jealous and envious of other expectant moms. Other than getting checked out for possible issues, I am not sure what to tell you, except I am sorry you are having trouble conceiving.
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          09/11/14
          Thank you so much now i dont feel half as bad as i did i thought it was wrong to feel that way because i should be like happy for them but its been a rough road of ttc but all in do time but i do have another question im very ashamed to admit this but my soon to be husbands brother told me his babies mother had used afrin and not knowing even what it was i started using it because my doctor said it worked well did not inform me about it being addictive i became addiceted while pregnant is was approved by my gyno so for two years ive been addicted to it and there are rumors of it effecting cervical mucos does any one know if this is true or not
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            10/10/14
            8Theresa Gould
            @CaitValenti, I'm sorry to hear about your addiction to Afrin. From a quick google search, it does appear Afrin can potentially affect cervical mucous but that doesn't mean you cannot conceive.

            I hope you get help with your addiction and talk with your doctor about it.

            http://www.fertilityafter40.com/8-over-the-counte…

            http://www.conceiveeasy.com/get-pregnant/medicine…

            http://www.babymed.com/medications/decongestant-n…
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            About Cait valenti
            Born: Kingston, New York
            Current: Hemet, California
            Birth: November 26
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            i have one beautiful daughter and trying for another one or two with her great dad/husband. we also have two kitties first is roger then other is finn. we moved from New york to California in july 20th of 2013. tattooed pierced hippy loving family