I feel so bad for him...it is almost my birthday and we don't really have any money for him to do anything for me. Plus my birthdays have not ever been very good for us. Our first one together I was pregnant and we were homeless...like living in our car homeless. Last year he was out of work and we were moving in with my parents on my birthday. This year I keep telling him that I am happy, we are in a much better place then any other year, we are happy and well fed, have a great place to live, everyone is healthy and he has a great job...so we don't have a lot of money for extras but this Mommy's heart is happy...what could I possibly ask for that could make my birthday any more special? Nothing...now I just need to get him to see that. Poor guy....he feels so bad, which makes me feel bad. I plan on just being super positive that day and trying to make it a fun day for all of us. Hopefully it will help him feel better.