I apologize but you ladies are my outlet....

I am quite sure you are all sick of hearing the Jen and Jeff saga when it should only be about Harper. Well dude just keeps screwing up. This weekend was his weekend to take Harper, but he seemed to forget to mention he was not taking her to his condo in northern VA. He was taking her out of state lines, which is against out visitation agreement, and failed to tell me until after he picked her up. Do I proceed with the courts or just let it go? He is also supposed to give me the contact information of all of the people staying in his summer home while Harper is there and he gave me first names. No last names or anything. What if these people have records that I don't know about!?! I am
Not sure what my next move should be. Advice from single or separated moms. I really don't know how much more I can take.

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    09/13/14
    We were never married but we do have juvenile and domestic relations attys. I will be contacting mine on Monday.
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      5Tabitha
      Write it down. Keep a written journal and talk to your lawyer, show your lawyer the journal. The judge will want it in writing.
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        09/13/14
        He actually sent me an email after he picked her up on Friday and then refused to pick up my phone calls. I can get the time he punched her out at day care and the time of the email, which he is supposed to notify me of any changes by Wednesday of that week. I don't think he thinks he did was wrong.
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          09/13/14
          I can't stress enough how I feel like I'm finally standing up for myself and Jeff can't deal with it, so this is the only thing he can do, which I don't think he did anything wrong. He claims he is getting me back for having little or no contact with him while Harper and I were in Chicago for my grandmothers funeral. How immature. I was at a wake for 6 hrs straight and then the next day we were at the funeral home, then church, then the mortuary where my grandmother was being buried. My bad. I didn't know I was supposed to stop my job over those two days to give him constant updates. My grandmother passed away.... Still have not received condolences from him. One of my last texts...."My family at least respects you as harpers father. But your family still hates me and is clearly living in the past and pissed off at me for what ever I have done to their precious little Jeff. Grow up and be a man. Stop making excuses for shit. And you know what I don't think I ever did love you. Bc all you ever did was put me down." To be followed by one to stick up for myself....."You do this to me all the time. Get over yourself. You're not the best guy in the world nor the brightest nor are you a bad ass bc you work for the secret service. So stop making me feel like it's ALWAYS my fault. I'm done." Thank God I go to therapy on the 23rd. He makes me feel like it's all my fault.
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