Baby Number One.

This is my first baby and both me and my fiancee were told we would not be able to have children. I found out I was pregnant on my sisters birthday so it was a pretty cool date but the day was a crazy one. I want everything to be okay with the baby but I am so scared I will do something wrong.

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    09/16/14
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    09/16/14
    My fiancee wants to know what the baby is but I do not... I have an appointment today to schedule for the ultrasound for the gender of the baby. My mom is throwing me a baby shower so my fiancee is suppose to tell her what the baby is and I will find out at the baby shower although I really don't want to know at all.
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      09/16/14
      Hi Amber, welcome. Congratulations, are you going to find out what you're having or are you gonna wait til you have your baby to see if it's a boy or girl?
      I couldn't wait and had to know with my baby. I kept her name a secret until I had her though.
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      09/16/14
      I do not want to know my fiancee does though. As long as he keeps it to himself and my mom only I will not know until my baby shower.
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      09/16/14
      I wanna do a gender reveal party for my next baby.
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        09/16/14
        He wants a boy of course to carry on his name but also because he says boys are so much easier than girls. He had three step children he helped raise with his ex wife.
        I have more experience with boys in my childcare filled life but I really just want this baby to be okay and to be able to hold him/her someday.
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          09/16/14
          4Katie
          Congrats!!! Pregnancy is a scary and exciting time. If you have any questions please ask and I am sure we can help you!
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          09/16/14
          Thank you!
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            09/16/14
            Welcome! You will do fine. I know a lot of women who have been told they can't get pregnant and they do.
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            09/16/14
            I changed my whole life style. I took natural vitamins, exercised and ate right. I lost over seventy pounds and started having my monthly cycle and the next thing I know I didn't have it again I didn't think anything of it but my fiancee was like your pregnant I was like there is no way.
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            09/16/14
            :) Yay.
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              09/16/14
              congrats on your pregnancy. Pregnancy is a scary feeling no matter if its your first baby or your third baby. Every pregnancy is different and every woman experience different things during their pregnancy. Best thing to do it take you prenatals, make sure you go to all your doctors appointments, and try to relax and when you can get some rest or sleep!! Your first trimester is when you are the most tired. As long as you listen to your doctor and listen to your body you cant go wrong. Good luck!!
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              09/16/14
              Thanks.
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                09/16/14
                I have only known I was pregnant for 8 weeks they did an ultrasound to see how far along I was but I was only 8 weeks pregnant so it wasn't that detailed of a pic yet. I have gestational diabetes because I was boarder line diabetic before I lost the weight my doctor told me I was at higher risk for it. I went to the doctors today and he wants me to test for high blood pressure now because my bp was high today due to stress at school. I don't know if I am normal in this or not but I have to keep going to all these appointments and I never get to see my baby. I just want to see my baby and know that everything is okay.
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                09/17/14
                He keeps saying he will do it in two weeks I told my fiancée last night and he said you should of asked him how many two weeks are we talking about. I have an appointment with a specialist on October 15th so I guess that is when I will get to see my baby because I can't afford to pay for one.
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                About Amber Brill
                Current: Waco, Texas
                Birth: January 16
                On Moms.com since: Sep 16, 2014