A different kind of guilt.
As someone who has never struggled with fertility issues, I often find myself feeling a little guilty talking about my pregnancies when I see others and have friends that seem to struggle with it. My sister was never able to have children and sometimes I find myself not talking about something or changing the conversation when she is around just because I don't want her to feel bad. I know that she is happy for me but I can also see the sadness on her face when I talk about it.
It can be so hard to find that balance of how much to share and how much to keep my mouth shut. Does anyone else face this?
One thing that breaks my heart, especially on here, is ladies who have been trying for awhile and want to know how long it took everyone to get pregnant. I tend to not say much because both of mine were unplanned and it would feel so awful to say that to someone who wants to have a baby more than anything and can't, ya know?