Advice pleaseee !

I'm pregnant & I've just revealed this to my boyfriend today. I'm 17 he's 27. He promises he's only been with me but he caught gonerrhea somehow. I've honestly have only been with him. The thing is I went to mt doctor for tested for everything & I was negative. I took pictures of ally papers & everything I gave him my medical record number he's even seen the time & date I went. Idk if he thinks they're fake or what idk. I've been crying for days I'm super sick & sore bit he genuinely believes he got that from me. But I never had it & still don't. I really really want Jim back. He's the best thing that has ever happened to me ever. I was sexually abused by both my father figures over 500 times over a process of 9 years. & he's been a great man to me. He thinks I cheated but I really promise I didn't. Please help me find a way to get him back. I've been apologizing all day. Please help. We were supposed to get married sometime after I turned 18 & I was gonna move in with him & I really want things to go back. But its kinda hard to explain how he could've contracted an std if he's only been sleeping with me. But I promise I didn't cheat. He is very upset & I completely understand. But I don't want it to stop here. Please help.

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    11/02/14
    Is it possible he could've had an sti instead of a std cus we were having srx while I had a uti.
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      11/02/14
      Just some information for you: Gonorrhea is caused by the bacterium Neisseria gonorrhoeae. The infection is transmitted from one person to another through vaginal, oral, or anal sex. Men have a 20% risk of getting the infection from a single act of vaginal intercourse with an infected woman. The risk for men that have sex with men is higher. Women have a 60–80% risk of getting the infection from a single act of vaginal intercourse with an infected man.
      A mother may transmit gonorrhea to her newborn during childbirth; when affecting the infant's eyes, it is referred to as ophthalmia neonatorum.[4] It cannot be spread by toilets or bathrooms.
      If you didn't cheat on him, do you think he might have cheated on you with another person male or female.... sometimes "mistakes" happen by their faulty choices. So i'm just assuming by what you wrote that if he's accusing you of giving it to him, yet you have proof you don't have it, then obviously he got it from someone else and isn't admitting it. I understand that he may be the one you love and the father of the child,this man should own up and grow up and be truthful to you.
      All people testing positive for gonorrhea should be tested for other sexually transmitted diseases such as chlamydia, syphilis, and human immunodeficiency virus.
      Talk to him, tell him that if he made a mistake that it's okay and to work it out.
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      11/02/14
      Thanks so much. Its just that I've been talking to him all day by text. & he's not being moved at all. I'm being completely honest & I've been crying & everything I've begged him I told him I'd do anything but its not phasing him at all.
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      11/02/14
      I know hormones aren't helping either, I remember crying over the simple little thing early on in my pregnancy, is he not responding because he might be guilty of doing something? Just a thought, i'm hoping things work out for you. Try not to stress too much, take it easy for your baby, try to give him space and maybe he'll get back to you soon.
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      11/02/14
      he was responding at first but now he isn't he's ignoring me & he's blocked me on all social media
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        11/04/14
        oh wow im sorry ur going threw this have u asked him to retest the both of u at a nearby clinic...make an appointment for the two of u and go together so he Wil know ur telling the truth.....if he doesn't want to go then he's hidding something......be safe and keep away from him meaning sex wise u don't want to get infected and have it affect ur baby....good luck
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          11/04/14
          I'm sorry you are going through this. I know this isn't hat you want to hear, but if he's lying to you about cheating it might be best if you stay away from him.

          You could try counseling to talk things through.

          Make sure your OB knows your baby's father has it so they can keep a close eye on you.

          Hugs Veronica. I know how hard it is, I've been there.
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