How did you decide or not decide to have another baby.

OK Ladies. I need some help or just curious how you all decided when to stop having kids. I have 2 wonderful boys a 6.5 yr and a 20m old. After my second child. I had it in my heart that we were done. I love being pregnant but my pregnancies are not easy. I had HG both times and my first tried to come at 32 weeks but were able to stop my contractions and put me on bed rest for 3 weeks however he still came at 36weeks. My second was born at 34 weeks and 5 days and spent 8 days in the Nicu. Both my husband and I were working and finances were tight until recently were my husband got an amazing new job and I am able to stay home with my kids. Now as my youngest approaches 2 a part of me.wants one more. However with being in my mid 30's now and 2 pretem babies I know In would be considered high risk and I do not think it would be fair to my other 2. I am so torn. Anybody else go through this?

    We had decided we were done after I had my son. But over time we kind of both changed our minds. This time we know that this one will be the last one. I don't really know how we know...maybe because I know I don't want to be pregnant again. Lol