My point has been made

I have a cousin who gave her son to her parents when he was 18 months old he's now ten. She just had a baby about four months ago, this little baby and herself almost didn't make it after the placenta detached from her uterus, they almost bled to death. My cousin has had this miracle baby with a babysitter for three days while she's off doing meth. I'm so disgusted I could puke she admitted it I front of the ten year old at her parents last night. People like that get pregnant everyday and here we are trying but it don't happen.

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5sarah New Bern, North Carolina
    11/12/14
    Melissa Middleton
    Yes, that infuriates me as well. And it is not fair when children are born to parents who won't care for them properly or love them. I am glad the baby made it though. Your cousin doesn't need children, in my opinion. You think almost losing her daughter would be a wake up call. I have relatives like this, too.
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    11/12/14
    5sarah
    I feel people like that should be forced by a judge to get their tubes tied
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      11/12/14
      Awful. :( I pray your cousin straightens her life out. I hope you get to have another child someday too. Keep trying and have fun while your trying.
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        11/12/14
        4Rina
        Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way. I have a very good friend who is pregnant with a surprise, very unwanted pregnancy (they already have other kids). She is just absolutely miserably unhappy. At the same time, her sister has been trying for 5 years to have a kid with no success. My friend feels so guilty for feeling the way she does, especially since her sister is suffering so much with infertility. But, I told her: it's not like there is only 1 baby to go around between the two of you. Her difficulties have nothing to do with your extreme fertility. So I know it feels unfair to you, but I personally think you are just torturing yourself thinking like that.
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        About sarah
        Born: Westfield, New York
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        Birth: April 30
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        I am 21 and have one child of my own plus my step kids.