house issues.

This home was the home of my boyfriend and his ex-fiance I didnt think it bothered me but, it does alot... I cant seem to feel at home here its just a house and I dont know if its because I didnt take place in the decorating at all everything is like it was before I got here or if its because I take pride in my home and housework and feel I cant do that here because another woman already has. has anyone ever been in a situation like this or understand where i'm coming from. what should I do I am not happy.

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    11/14/14
    Melissa Middleton
    Yes, I have. We are in the home that my husband and his ex-wife shared for many years. And, honestly, I still do not feel like this is home, even with redecorating. It is like the old couple presence is still there even though they divorced, he does not love her, and she remarried someone else. My hubby says I should not feel this way, but I have tried not to. You are not alone in how you feel.
    I hope my family can move out of this house someday.
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    11/14/14
    Melissa Middleton
    Try your best to hang in there and take it one day at a time. My hubby tries to state why we cannot, too, but he does not understand the way I feel. If the shoe was on the other foot, we would probably be moving. I hope you all can move sooner than that. I know it is not easy.
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    11/14/14
    ...yeah.. I started trashing her stuff when I would find it.
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    11/17/14
    Melissa Middleton
    Yeah, that is the worst part. I hated finding stuff of hers and old pictures.
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      11/14/14
      Yep before we moved into our place it was like that for me too! Maybe see if you can redecorate together or move.
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        11/14/14
        Yes, I completely understand. My husband's ex picked this house out and because of credit we can't move. We've tried, we can't get another loan... After 5 years, it's starting to feel like my home.. But at the same time it's hard to squealch the knowledge that I never would have picked this house out.
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        About Tiffany
        Current: Karnes City, Texas
        Birth: March 25
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        Full Time homemaker, home manager, home chef and laundry consultant, and girlfriend to my amazing boyfriend Aaron.I'm also Mother to Remington and mother to furbabies daisy and Lily our spoiled rotten puppies.