My son is 9 months old, should he be able to hold the bottle and feed himself now?
My son never would hold his own bottle to feed himself. The few times he did try to hold it he would shake the bottle and make a mess. Lol if he doesn't seem to have any coordination issues then I wouldn't worry about it. He may just like the attention of being fed :-)
I don't believe there is a set timeline. Some babies never hold their own bottle, and some grab at it early. If your baby starts trying to hold it during a feeding, I wouldn't discourage it. Just help keep it steady while they grasp it as well.