I'm gonna lose it
Breanikas mother called tonight, breanika didn't wanna talk she was more interested in 4 year old land. The mother proceeded to try to convince breanika I was there telling her how to act and what to do (Breanikas at her grandmothers right now an hour and a half from my house). The grandmother told The mother I am not there and no one is telling her what to say or how to act. The mother still insisted on trying to pressure information out of breanika until my significantly more mature than her own mother four year old told her mom I'm done talking to you goodbye and hung up. I am shaking mad you just don't do that to an innocent toddler, she was probably drunk too.
My ex would rather be with his friends than my daughter.. and she knows it. She lives with her grandparents. Last time she was at my parents', she was mad almost all weekend because her dad had promised he would be at her concert and he didn't show. She locked him out of the house, locked him out of the room-apparently locked the chain lock then climbed out the window (when he works, he works nights so they share a room....)
Just give Breanika extra hugs and love. Hopefully she'll remember that more instead of her bio mom being an idiot.
My bio father sounds like your daughter's mother.