How much do you expect your husband/partner to help out at home?
My husband doesn't do much in the home, I try to keep it clean and cozy but he doesn't care much about. He never put his dishes away, he thinks that this is not his job but mine. I dream when I will be able to walk into the kitchen and find no evidence of him eating because he will have put the dishes away.
We women have to make our partner help out at least the basic, not make them feel like they have a slave that HAVE to do everything for them!