ugh!!!

So mad, Our patio furniture is on our side in front of our bedroom windows, I was about to put Selena down for a nap and our neighbor sits in Our chair and smokes a cigarette! I went out and said if you want to use the chair I don't mind but please move it over to your side because i'm putting Selena down for her nap. I'm trying to be nice but i'm about to loose my mind living here! Grrrr!
I don't know how to say don't smoke in front of my bedroom windows without being totally rude ya know, any advice?

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    12/17/14
    I would be totally direct about it. I would also tell them not to use my chairs. Just let them nicely know that they are not allowed to smoke around where you live.
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      12/17/14
      The lady took my chair and smoked on their side. I'm not good at being direct because I sound like an arse doing so, I think i'm gonna need a push, ugh!! help!
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      12/17/14
      You could always put a note on the furniture that says "please do not use and please do not smoke near my home" that way you are not actually confronting anyone.
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      12/17/14
      Her chair was wet she'd said. I was trying to be nice but I guess i'm a pushover. I like our neighbors a little bit but I want them to know there's boundaries too.
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        12/18/14
        Well I sold the patio furniture, now they can't sit on our side anymore and I used some of the money for gas in my car the rest I set aside for when I need it.
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        12/18/14
        NICE!
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