Panic..

So yea I havent been on here for quite awhile now and I have been so stressed and busy and my SO just hasnt been helping like I thought he would I mean I get it he fights for our country and I am proud of him for that but I need a break from time to time and if yu are here yu might as well help me.. So yesterday I think he finally got the point I had all 4 kids crying and the two oldest was basically screaming my name so I just had a breakdown I put everything down yelled for my husband and went and locked myself in the bathroom got under the shower and just cried after a hour or so I basically passed out and my hubby found his way into the bathroom got me to go lay down and relax.. So I wake up today and omg I went into the living room he had the two oldest watching tv eating cereal and the twins were fast asleep. The two oldest got up and ran to me and was like "we thought you would never wake up" haha I love my family

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4Abigail Kale
03/03/15
4Abigail Kale
Hubby is against it right now he says he dont want other people watching his kids.
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03/03/15
4Abigail Kale
Yeah it is very hard I really freaked out.
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    03/03/15
    Melissa Middleton
    Goodness! Sorry you are enduring all of that. I am glad your hubby stepped in; sometimes it takes men a bit longer to get the hint. I hope he decides to give you some help while he is away. Hugs and prayers to you, girl.
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      03/03/15
      I am sorry, and agree with Melissa, men take longer to catch on. My grandma says that it's because they have to see everything as their own idea which makes sense since they usually let enough time pass that when they "decide on their own" the fact that you mentioned it can be waved off with a little "I don't remember that" I am happy that he finally stepped in, I know as mommy you feel it shouldn't have to be when you melt down, but maybe he needed to see that and it can lead to other conversations such as the birth control and not having any more kids at the moment. I hope good things come out of this for you dear, prayers your way and God bless.
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