feeling stressed out

its not easy having a toddler and baby...its hard not sleeping or eating and having to deal with a husband who doesnt understand and wants to have X every night when the only thing i think about is sleeping cuz my baby is fully awake from 8 a.m. til 2 pm and wont sleep til 2 and i have to still attend my 18 month son and i dont rest much ...and we are currently have fleas inside yuck now we have to fumigate the entire house its a mess everything is inside bags and the clean up will be a pajn in my ass tomorrow havjng to take care of my children n having to put everything back alone ...because hes working tomorrow ...he could not wait til the weekend it sucks

    Bethany Reilly
    Oh no, so sorry! Hope things get better:) things are getting easier around here. My toddler is a very independent player & sleeper. He still wakes sometimes at night but other than that it's good! It won't be forever. They're only babies for such a SHORT time. Maybe talk to your husband. That's what I had to do and I was honest and told him I needed him to help me. Men want to feel wanted and needed. As soon as I started making him feel needed more then he helped more. Also, sex is a vital part to your marriage. There are plenty of nights I'm so tired all I want to do is sleep but it's my duty as a wife to give myself to husband whenever he needs. Also, sex helps us both sleep better and relax more. I try to look at sex as a special thing because it is. And if you think about it you're the only one who has the power to satisfy his need for it. That's pretty special. I hope things get better. Being a mom isn't easy. But before you know it they'll be grown up and moving out and you'll wish they were little babes again.
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    I'm a first time mom of one sweet baby boy its been quite the journey of a lifetime everything changes when you have a baby and i wouldn't change it