Mom's aren't supposed to be scared...

But I am terrified,,my gyno told me I am at high risk for cervical cancer and I have to have this thing done called a colposcopy..I tend to overthink things since I've had my son so I'm constantly dwelling on this,,my SO wasn't at all sympathetic or worried when I told him but offered to take a day off of work so I wouldn't have to go by myself..now he says he can't take a day off because he has too much stuff going on at work,,last night I tried to make a plea for him to come with me to which he replied it's your fault and went even further to say my ex doesn't have that problem and when I told him how insensitive that was he started to make crying faces at me..it's not a great feeling to know I have to go through this by myself,,sorry for my cry baby rant I just have to let it out somehow

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    04/08/15
    I don't like to ask that of people I feel that I should be be able to lean on the person I am with but since that doesn't seem to be an option I'm just going to trek on by myself
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      04/09/15
      ugh. Jerk. Mine did the same thing. I found a friend. Hated doing it, but you don't want to try to drive after that. Even if you don't tell them whats going on, you need somebody. Hugs.
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      04/09/15
      Haha sorry I laughed I know it's not funny but men can be such butt holes sometimes..I talked with his mom and she will be dropping me off and picking me up and her and grandpa will watch the kids,,it just boggles my mind that men can be babies and when it's your turn (not to be a baby but to just need some hugs) they want you to suck it up..heaven forbid you tell them the same when they get a cold lol
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      04/09/15
      lol So true. Just wait until he hears he can't get any for a few weeks. I still remember the fight with my ex over that one.
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      04/09/15
      Oh am I not supposed to have sex after the procedure??I know after labor my doctor told me not to have sex for 6 weeks and my vaginal wall tore so it was like 2 1/2 months before we could do that because it took so long to heal
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      04/10/15
      They told me to wait two weeks because they did a biopsy, too. I told my ex longer just to make him mad (yeah....really bad relationship). My GYN told me it would hurt if we did.
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      04/10/15
      Ah I see..my gyno said depending on how much of me is affected he might have to do a biopsy I told him just to take all that stuff out of me,,I'll just have to make sure my SO doesn't have a 7th bud light cuz at that point he is all about the loving lol
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        04/09/15
        Melissa Middleton
        You are not a cry baby. This is a scary thing. He should not have behaved that way, and I am sorry he did. If anyone was being a baby and immature, it was him.
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        04/09/15
        Thank you Melissa..I don't like putting my stuff out there like this but it just made me so upset,,I think because it's not really a thing for men to get emotional like "women do" that they have that rub some dirt in it mentality at the absolute wrong moments
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        04/10/15
        Melissa Middleton
        You're welcome. They can be idiots, at times. I am sure not all of them mean to, but they can and will say inappropriate and flat-out stupid things. And I know they can even throw temper tantrums, but they will deny it.
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        04/10/15
        Preach it sister!!I'm so glad for this sight you mommies get it..seems like the women I have real life interactions with deny all of this
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        04/13/15
        Melissa Middleton
        Some people like to pretend they are married to the perfect man or have a flawless life. Lol I know I don't...I make mistakes, too.
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        I am a brand new mommy to a beautiful boy, also have a three year old step daughter who is equally beautiful. For now I'm a housewife, until my little man is a bit older. I'm super excited to connect with all these other mommies!