Getting My 3 Year Old Ready

It was so easy to get my son ready to be a big brother. He was 5 when she was born. But Justice still wants to sit on my lap, cry to get her way, and try out the bottles and pacifiers I've recently purchased. I worry about upsetting her emotional balance by rushing her into a more interesting (possibly more appropriate LOL) stage in her development. I am tempted to thrust her into certain maturity she's clearly not ready for...

So before I take any leaps, besides removing the bottles and pacifiers from her reach, I would prefer to ask you what your ideas, experiences, and best suggestions are.

I've tried preparation videos, baby dolls that eat and pee. She's not interested. Help? ​

Sabrina AbbottReno, Nevada
    Sabrina Abbott
    Or, advice on staying sane while dealing with two babies at one time ;-) whichever would be greatly appreciated!
      Mine were only about 11 months apart but theres a Dora dvd called Big sister and I liked that and it helped a little(maybe lol).
      About Sabrina Abbott
      Born: Modesto, California
      Current: Reno, Nevada
      Birth: February 11
      On since: Dec 4, 2013
      Freelance Writer and telephone survey interviewer; due to have my 4th child April 30. 2014. Self published indie author under penn name Rebekah Fowler.Further writing works have been taken off the back burner and put in the deep freeze for now....