Now that is getting closer in time to finding out if were having a boy or a girl. My family is driving me nuts . weve already agreed on a first name and that was a battle cause both mother in laws put there two cents into it and i stopped them in there track . so anyways theyre asking if Rowan is a boy or a girl and whats it middle name , then when i tell them oh were not telling about the gender. they get upset. why is family more worried about the gender when im more worried about what meals going to stay down?