Ok so we are to the point where we are ready to let Elianna cry it out. Where do we start? Malachi was a lot easier because he was always pretty independent so we did very little crying with him. We do have a couple of crib toys that we will put in there with music. But when she's crying what do I do? Or hubby? Should he go in since I breastfeed her? I'm just exhausted and to the point where I'm ready to let her cry it out.