persobal question regarding marriage
well how do i begin first of i love my husband but sometimes he drives me nuts there are time we are okay with each other and other times we cant stand each other the other day he told me that if i wanted to be with other people we should separate and go our seperate ways and that he just doesnt trust me at all ...i been saying that to him for the past year when we had our second kid and now since i went back to college and hopefully be done wih college he wants to do that ... i think ita because i dont feel like having sex w him im just dont and he wants to if hes lucky maybe 3 times per month. and i think he wants to be with someone else hes just doesnt want to admit that im not sure . we are the most part fightning or arguing and im just tired of it and want to be over with. he is constantly checking my phone and wants to know where im at all the time and even checks my school backpack and even freaks out im im dressed up ...i cant do nothing without him knowing about it i tired ...i dnt know what to do or think about it.....i want to seperate for a while at least to see if were meant for each oher we known each other 10 yrs and been married 6 but we had our ups and downs and for the most part i just want out
Do you know that movie Fireproof?
In the movie the husband and wife also had problems with trust and fighting and so on. Then his father told him about the book Fireproof. You have to do certain things on certain days for your husband. And at the beginning it was very hard for the husband to do it. But he pulled through. I bought this book when me and my husband had problems with trust and fighting all the time and I did these things without him knowing that I bought the book and that I am doing the things. At the end we fell in love all over again and its been 4 years since and we are very happy and in love. Go goole it and see what you think of it.
things are better now he talked things over and i told him too that if he wanted to date someone else to get out and dont come back he wont be allowed bear my kids ...