How much time do you get to yourself, really, as a new parent? Especially if the other is very involved in taking care of baby as well. I know, I am big on gaming so I like an hour or so to myself to be with my friends online. My oldest brother is expecting baby #2 next year, and he said the first year was pretty relaxed, boring even (he is a gamer, too), but then you hear other people like "Oh, you'll never have a moment to yourself again!!" "Everything includes baby!" I understand to a degree, maybe I am underestimating babies? Or overestimating myself.