Very discouraged

​I had had my first child in January 2011. I got on the depo shot in april, I gained too much weight so I didn't have my second shot. I started having my period in July, and didn't stop bleeding until February the following year. Me and my fiance have been trying to have a child ever since then. We can't seem to get pregnant for some reason. I have tried everything to conceive, but nothing is working. Every where I am reminded that I want another child. Everywhere I go I see pregnant women or newborns. I can't escape from the thought of being pregnant again. I would give almost anything to be pregnant. I don't really know what I am doing so wrong. Everyone says if it is meant to be then it will happen. I get really discouraged because they don't understand how I feel. Is there anything that anyone can share that can ease my mind?

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Moms Expertise
    12/10/13
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    I don't have any insurance, and I know it can be expensive to go to an ob/gyn. I don't have one really. The only one I have seen is the doctor that I saw while I was pregnant. I haven't seen him almost for 3 years now. I get discouraged because everyone I know gets pregnant so easy.. but I can't and I want to know why.. I am young I should be fertile!!
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      12/10/13
      8Theresa Gould
      I don't have any advice but wanted to say I am sorry to hear you are struggling to conceive. There are many moms on Moms.com who are also trying to conceive, I hope some of them will chime in here.

      Have you checked out our Moms Expertise on Getting Pregnant yet?

      https://moms.com/moms-expertise/category/1/gettin…
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        12/10/13
        I dont have any advice. Sorry! But im here for you. Im sure youll have a baby soon.
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          12/10/13
          really? 3 years? I only had one shot.
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            12/10/13
            I really didn't think it would take this long to wear off.
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              12/10/13
              wow.. thats crazy
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                12/11/13
                I agree about relaxing and not stressing... the more you stress the harder it will be to become pregnant!
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                  12/12/13
                  Well I had went to the er a few times, but they said that nothing was wrong. I am definitely going to a doctor though because I want to know why i can't get pregnant with me being so young... i am in my most fertile stage or at least i should be.
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