Saggy tummy and need some emotional support!
Hi. I am very confused and depressed. My husband is acting weird. We were very happy in this relationship in the beginning. I thought that I am the luckiest wife in this whole world. I had everything, like he is financially well settled and handsome. He was also very caring and loving. Now his attitude has changed. He is finding fault and picking up a quarrel for everything. He is comparing me with his colleague who has a perfect figure. He says she has a perfect hourglass figure. My boobs are perfect but I have a saggy tummy. I don’t have the confidence to wear bikinis or tight jeans in public because of it. He asked me to undergo a tummy tuck surgery from a clinic in Barrie( http://www.lakeviewsurgery.com/cosmetic-surgical-… ). But I am scared to go under the knife. At the same time, I cannot stand his comparison with his colleague. I need to do something about it. Sometimes I have a feeling that my husband is having an extramarital affair with her. I am not sure about it. It is just my intuition. I don’t know. I'm planning to schedule an appointment at a cosmetic surgery centre in Barrie. But before that, I need some support. I cannot discuss these things with my parents and relatives. I am here for some emotional support. Can somebody help?
It's really not fair for your husband to compare you to others, but you really can't do anything about it.