Pregnent and hard times
I fojnd out i was pregnent a coulpe days go i havent told my husband yet cause hes traveling. Im not sur if he wants a new addtion sdo wehat should i do. Things also have been a little bit bumpy between us. So i am thinking about this. So moms what should i do? Also my sister says she will help but she is usally very busy and my brother doesnt get long well with me so...
A baby is a little bundle of joy and when I found out I was pregnant it was very early on in my relationship and I was so scared to tell him because we were in a rocky place in our relationship.
My boyfriend, although we were fighting a lot, was open to the new addition after he saw how excited I was for it. It took him a few days to come around to the idea. It was not magic to clear up problems but it gave us motivation to overcome our issues.We are still working on them, but the baby drives us to work communicating better with one another and building our relationship.
I would tell him after he gets back from his trip. Try to create a nice romantic setting, like a candle lit dinner for two in your home, slip on a sexy dress, and when you feel the moment is right, tell him. Be honest, tell him you're excited but scared, and if he does not support you he's an idiot! Some men need time to adjust and come around after finding out about such a life-altering addition; but it's the most amazing creation anyone can get and he will see that. Just remember how much the baby means to you, and he will see that. Don't worry everything will work out for the best!
I would make sure to be honest with him
And tell him. He might now like it at first but if he truely knows how much this baby means to you and he really cares he will
Come around an be happy for the both of you and your new baby. ;)
Congratulations and hope the best for and your family.
Stay strong to what you believe and everything will work out.
Sorry for your loss. I'm happy to hear you were able to get help raising your daughter and get you through the hard times.
Amy, I pray that everything went okay when you told him this morning. ;)