I don't think anyone is ever truly ready
When I got pregnant with my oldest, I was terrified. I didn't know how to be a mom (obviously i was a new mom to be). But she was my utter blessing cause I wasn't supposed to have any, My 2nd was somewhat planned. My husband and I decided we wanted to try again and we miscarried before I got pregnant with her. My 3rd wasn't planned at all. When I first found out I was pretty upset. I didn't want to have another baby this soon. Here my youngest at the time just turned a year and I find out that I'm pregnant. As my pregnancy progressed I became more receptive to it and now I'm taking it day by day and I'm not upset about it anymore. I'm not a religious person at all but something my mother in law said helped me. With me not supposed to be able to have children at all, she said "hita things happen for a reason and god is giving you the wonderful gift of life, even if it happened earlier than you wanted. There is a reason for everything, even if it doesn't make sense." It made me feel better because it's true. Many women aren't able to have babies and those of us who are moms and are blessed with children are very lucky and received the best title ever; Mom.