Noah..

I am taking care of my sisters son noah and he is a trobule maker. How can i make him stop?

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    12/28/13
    I mean making him stop being bad.
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    12/28/13
    He is 14 years old and does not follow the ruels. He is not my son he is my nephew so i dont want to punish him to bad and be to harsh on him. He has been here since the 20 th and will be back with his mom on janurary 15th if all goes as planned. But in that short 8 days so far he has broken 6 plates, made marks on the walls, has snuck out of the house, spilt tea on purpose, did something very bad, cussed many times, broke a chair and runied my garden. How can i make him stop?
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      12/28/13
      Well, you could try seating him down and letting him know you forgive him for all things he broke and ask him what he is going on in which you can help him sort out what's going.

      But before you meet him as God to give you wisdom and the right words to address him and also pray that his heart will be receptive to receive what you will say to him.

      I find that it is the strong the God humbles in these types of situations. So you will be the to be humbled when it comes to this 14 year.

      14 year old are going thru many changes, hormones, identity, influences by peer pressure. One has to be so patient with them. I will keep you in my prayers as well Amanda
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        12/29/13
        I talked to noah yesterday and he just ran to his room in my home. Then he slammed the door.
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          12/29/13
          Thank you linda and luana for praying for us. Noah is sadly sick in bed. But i gave him a cup of tea and he will soon have some soup for lunch then a nap. He still cusses for he cant do anything but sit in bed and cuss loudly but he knows i love him and he is getting better with his behavior.
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            12/29/13
            In regards to the cursing when he is feeling a little better you might have to address that, and let him know in a loving way that is not acceptable and that he needs to stop. speaking to you with the foul language. Tell him that he could use his easy smart words.
            The reason I tell you this is that sometimes we allow people to talk to us this way when we really don't have to. I find that confronting people who curse repeatedly sometimes need to know its not necessary to communicate.in that manner.
            I confronted my own 22 year old and I told her plainly it was not acceptable, and even though I know she does curse outside of my home, she does not curse at me or in my home.
            I'm so happy that things are getting better and I look forward to many more good reports Amanda White.
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              12/29/13
              Noahs fever is slowly dropping down. When i went tyo give noah his lunch noah appoligzed for all the things he broke and the marks he made. He is now sleeping soundly and his behavor is getting better sdo fast!
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                12/29/13
                Huh... turns out noah was fake sleeping he took permant marker to the wall and drew all over it and wrote a bad word.
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                  12/29/13
                  Now what am i suppose to do? He just wont stop.
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                    12/29/13
                    He is sick so i dont want him to clean it up because he might not get better. I switch him to anthor room for now. I cleaned up the mess myslef and then i gave him a talking to. When my husband gets home me and him will ask noah why he is doing this. I told his mom about his behavior and she said he is normally a good boy. He is now in bed with a cup of tea, a book, and my ipad with a few games on it for him. I hope we find out why he is doing what hes doing. I dont have any kids yet but pregnant with my first one who may be lost. I dont need all this stress. But i am sure i weill find a way. I will update you later. I just heard a crash..........
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                      12/30/13
                      Noah is still sick. But he apolgized for all the messes he made. This moroing he helped me clean up the broken glass of the vase he broke. He gave me some money to pay for the damage. Im going to the doctor today and he said he will just sleep. Till i get back. I think noah is learning slowly but hes getting there.
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