i feeling i'm being hated by my ex's family because i'm divorcing him and they want us to work it out and i don't want to work it out at all. I rather us just be friends for our kids so they know that mommy and daddy can get along with out loving each other. I'm divorcing him for the right reasons and it hurts that his family hates me for what i'm doing.
Devorce is always hard - please just try to keep calm.
Maybe they were. Divorce is hard for everyone.
Let them be. Stay kind, stay focused, stay sure, ensure them that you aren't taking the kids away from them.
I found my exes parents were mostly concerned about their access to their grand kids. Over time.. It gets easier. Way easier.
In fact last summer my kids were w my exes family in Texas for a week and they flew me out to get them to fly back w them and I stated for two nights. And my exes new wife was ok w it all. Lol.
It takes time. You'll be surprised how far you will come from this part. It's hard.
You got this.