man oh man. don't mess with my child and then act like urs in all innocent when ur child is older and knows better and my son is only 1 and doesn't know any better. people I swear.
the other day my bf had smacked his nephews hand who is almost 4 yrs old. we had told him 5 time to stop and he didn't listen so he smacked his hand and the boy stared at his mom who was in the same room as us and yelled at us for smacking his hand and said he doesn't know better, then she went and said u don't see me smacking ur child, and I stepped in and had said actually yes u do, u all smack my child for no reason sometimes even when he just cries a little, my son is only 1 but yet u expect him to know better? her son is almost 4 he knows when hes told to do something to do it. and she got all mad at me, well tonight her son was picking up my son and carter is too big for him to be picking up and draggin, and I had told him to put him down, and he ran crying to her and she yelled at me not to yell at him he doesn't know better, and I was like ok here we go again, once again u guys yell and smack my child when u know hes doing something wrong but he doesn't know, hes only 1, so if u can smack my child imam smack yours and I NEVER smacked her son that's the funny thing. but im not going to just sit there and have her son get away with everything when he knows better while my son gets yelled at for nothing because he doesn't know any better.
and im constantly tellin her son to stop taking my sons toys out of his hands or hes too rough with his toys, his toys are meant for his age and his age only, his walkers he likes to take from my son and slam them into things and is constanly playing with all my sons toys, he will come into my room first thing in the morning and drag all the toys out of the box but yet when carter tries to play with one of his he yells at my son for even trying to play with his toys. idk what to do im tired of constantly telling him everyday and I get looked at like im the bad person but yet they do the same thing to my son?
I really can't stand that. The day this happens I'm going to try to be civil, but I doubt it.
and now when I know my son is acting up or her son is acting up I will grab my son and all his toys and we will stay in my room and I lock everybody else out of my room. bc one day imam end up losing it more bc I don't think its fair. she even told my son one day, don't mess with auntie, auntie don't play any games, auntie will whip ur butt, im family im aloud to whip your butt, then she whips him and I straight took him out of her arms. the only person that smacks his hand or yells at both of them is my bfs mom. but she doesn't go overboard, she treats both boys equally, now yea she may not smack my son as hard or give him a hard whooping or yell as much to him bc she understands he doesn't know better. I just don't know what to do next time this happens. its all getting on my nerves.
Yea I would lose it, if anyone other than me or my husband put a hand on my kids. Maybe set down and tell her I wont smack your kid anymore I'll come and tell you but I expect the same out of you and don't ever lay a finger on my child again.
that's the thing I don't even smack her child. my bf did that one day bc he wouldn't listen and he knows better. and that what all started it.
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I got pregnant at 18, had him month after I turned 19. Currently 21. I work full time, full time student and full time momma to Mr. Carter Layne Kennedy. He was born august 23rd,2012. Was born 2w3d early. 6lbs 7oz 21in. I had a VERY hard pregnancy.