i have a 3 year old daughter , me and her father are delegates , since she was 1. We can't seem to ever agree, but its gotten way better over the years , were civil. Yesterday , his girlfriend cut her hair for the first time , 5 inches!!!! Her first cut , I missed it. And had to pick her up after work n find out myself, I'm so upset, how do I approach her on why \ how she was wrong?
Second, first haircuts are a major milestone. You both should be at least invited to participate in big milestones. Again, how would he feel if you kept him out of the loop of an important milestone?
The sucky thing is he can't undo it. Even if he apologizes and really understands that what happened was wrong it won't un-cut her hair. I'm so sorry. It's making me upset just thinking about having to miss something like that :(