Love or not?

There's this guy, we will call him Jesse, that I dated for two years long distance and we both did stupid things to each other but we still stayed together and fought through it. Then one day the fighting just got to bad and we gave up:/ the thing is....I still love him. I still want to be with him for the rest of my life but now I'm with this new guy, we will call him Henry, and I know I'll never love him like I love Jesse. The only problem is Henry was my best friend before we dated so I can't hurt him but idk how Jesse feels about us anymore. We still somewhat talk like we used to. Hnoestly I don't think I'll ever love anyone like Jesse so don't say that I shouldn't be in a relationship till I'm over Jesse because I'll never be over Jesse. Should I tell Jesse how I feel? I've been trying so hard to keep it to myself but I just feel horrible doing that to Henry:/

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    02/02/14
    Margaret hernandez
    some time an x is just an x... who can you see your self with when you are old. who will take care of you in the good time or the bad times... is it love or lost. what are their prows and cones for both man. who get along better with your friends and family. who would make abetter dad and not walk out on you, if something was wrong with the baby.who is more stable in a job...in the long run you can only say who you wont to be with. you are the one who will have to wake up next to him.who will keep you safe at night. what one make you fill like you can do everything.what one pick you up when you are down.who make you laugh.
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    02/03/14
    Honestly I can see myself marrying both of them but I feel like if I married Henry I'd always have that "what if" with Jesse. Henry is better when it comes to helping me during good times and bad and Jesse never met my family because of being long distance but most of my friends liked him but they also like Henry too. Jesse has his own car and is about to move out on his own while also being in college. Henry can't afford much of anything cuz he doesn't have a job. Jesse makes me feel like I'm floating on clouds. He gives me butterflies every time I see his name pop up on my phone. He makes me smile and everything. Henry is my best friend and he knows so much about me but he doesn't make me feel the way Jesse does:/
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      02/02/14
      I know how you feel, you gotta do what in your heart feels right. Its not fair to "Henry " to lead him on though if you don't think that you'll be able to love him to the fullest. I felt the same way when me and now ex-fiancé broke up. I dated a guy after awhile and it never felt right I was still in love with my ex, and I still do love him but in a different way because hes the father of my son. I love him for giving me a beautiful child, and now I will never love him the way I used to. I think maybe you should talk to "Jesse" and tell him how you feel, but at the same time you both did bad things to each other. No love will be like your first love. But i deff think you should be fair to "henry" and give him a shot, or at least be honest to him. Wouldn't you want the same in return? And im not judging at all by any means so please don't think i am, i just was giving my opinion and its yours to take or leave i wont be offended. I wish you the best of luck in all of this!
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        02/03/14
        Tessa
        Be honest with both of them and yourself that's the best thing you can do. And try to figure out what's best for you.
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        I am 20 year old ambitious girl with goals in life. Been married for almost a year now to the biggest pain in my butt! He's my everything though and I can't wait to have a family with him one day
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