did you keep your friends when you had kids or did your friends walk away from you never to be seen.
I kept many of my closest friends though we may not hang out as much as we used to. Once I became I parent I noticed I didn't have much left in common with my friends who didn't. I try and keep in touch with my friends as much as I can, but my very best friend had a child the same year as me and it's been nice to go through this together.
My best friend grew distant as I had children... can;t really say if it was because she moved an hour away or just that life happened... but it was a sad time for me! But as my children grew i gained many new mommy friends!