What should I do?

My daughter was caught alone in my home with her boyfriend. I don't know what they were doing, I just caught them walking out of her room together.

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    02/04/14
    This is the first time.
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      She is seventeen turning eighteen. There is no sex talk or a speck of sex anything in my home.
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      My mother raised me in a clean home, and I have done the same with my daughter. I, personally was ruined by sex as a teenager and had her at 15.
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      You do realize you need to talk to her, be open and honest, a place she can come to or else teen sex probably more likely WILL happen.. if you ignore it, never talk about it and make her feel like she cannot come to you.. that is when things happen. Does that make sense? You can't pretend like she isn't feeling emotions and all normal things a teenager is.. you are fooling yourself if you do.
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      My emotions overran my thinking and I made the choice, most idiotic choice of getting myself pregnant. I am teaching her that letting your emotions take over is wrong and shameful.
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      She has expectations. The word "sex" is to not be spoken within my household, not to even sort gender. If her friends even make gestures of such thing, I do not allow her to be friends with her any longer, I've pulled her out two schools because of the things I have seen and over heard. She is very lucky I even let her have a boyfriend.
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      I make sure that they see each other twice a week, she does not have a phone or any type of internet access. They both go to seperate schools, if she wants to know so bad, she can leave my home.
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      Let me answer your question with a question, if you had a teen daughter and knew that she was having sex, what would you do? How would your handle knowing your daughter is having sex? That's the thing with many parents, they acknowledge that their daughter(s) will be having sex soon and decide to take their teen's emotions in full hand instead of ignoring them. Teenagers need to learn to ignore these feelings as "love".
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      What teenager would be smart about sex
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      Well all I know for now, my daughter will be leaving in four days, she will no longer be brought up in this house as an eighteen year old. She can live with my slut of a sister for all I care. Good talk.
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      Oh no, it's not her choice. I told her she will be forced to move out.
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      02/13/14
      my parents got PG twice with the pull out method-- me and my sis
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      Margaret hernandez
      wow. she is your only kid i hope.you need some help. need to talk to some one that can help you with your problems.dont know what happen to you, but sex is not a bad thing.sorry you cant be a big girl and talk about.
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      Margaret hernandez
      that the wrong thing to do. emotions are not wrong and you should not be a shame of them. we are people not an animal emotions are apart of us..not dealing with your emotions is more harm then good..
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      Margaret hernandez
      if you had her at 15y old then what your mom did with you did not work..if she is almost 18 she going to end up leaving you soon...it never to let to talk with her. let her know you dont what her to have the same life you had. you wont better for her..what she think she now about sex is what her fiend told her or what she is doing on her own with who knows what....let her know she can come to you to talk..
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        Margaret hernandez
        i would have a talk with her. it ok to be all up in her world. ask her. what ware you doing in your room with a boy and what ware you doing with him...just be paper for what she might say. I hope they ware not doing nothing.......make a rule no boys in your ROOM. only in the livingroom or some ware you can keep an eye on them if you lat aboy come over.
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          Margaret hernandez
          thank you laura for showing me the way NOT to be a mom. ty ty.
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            Tessa
            First I would talk to her then I'd ground her. And the bf wouldn't be allowed back over unless I was home. You might want to call his parents and let them know.
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              02/04/14
              His parents have been contactd, she is no longer allowed to see him, period.
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