Decided to talk to Bailey about the whole thing.

Guess I have no other choice now

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    02/05/14
    4Kerri Nino
    Let us know how it goes
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      02/05/14
      I don't even know what to say to her. It's weird because I've been following my mother's way and after speaking to my father, he said that my mother's ways were wrong and I should try to mend what has happened with Bailey...
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        02/05/14
        4Kerri Nino
        If she was my daughter and I was in your shoes.....Even though I am against teens having sex....I would have to allow her at this age to feel free to talk about it I mean you would rather her find out about safe sex from you then her boyfriend. I would ask her what she does know about it and continue from there....Do explain your beliefs, but keep in mind she is almost a legal adult and you will have to respect her decisions (even if they are not what you would choose). She will have to live and learn it wont be long before college and you cant control what she does, but you can control who she calls to ask for help in hard times....by her knowing that you can keep an open mind no matter what right now will help in the long run. And know that if you do tell her anything about disowning her it will scar her the rest of her life. I mean it will scar you as well, she will get married and she wont invite you to the wedding....grandkids....so just use tact and listen and speak from the heart. You will know what to say if you just keep an open mind. I was disowned from my mom due to my soon to be ex-husband. She has only seen my oldest son when he was 1 month old and refuses to have anything to do with me or them!
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          02/05/14
          She confessed to having doing things with her boyfriend...I had to walk away...
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            02/05/14
            4Kerri Nino
            Ok breathe and then tell her you understand and try to stay open minded...unfortunately its todays society...ask even if it is hard if she needs birth control...or if she could be pregnant it would explain the increased appetite.
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              02/05/14
              She has told me that they went without my permission to get birth control...and they have been safe by doing everything they can to prevent anything.
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                02/05/14
                4Kerri Nino
                Well, that's good! but maybe do a test to make sure since she does have an increased appetite?
                Tell her you still love her no matter what even if you do not agree with what has been happening.
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                  02/05/14
                  She swears up and down she's not pregnant
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                    02/05/14
                    4Kerri Nino
                    When was her last cycle?
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                      02/05/14
                      She just got off last week.
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                        02/05/14
                        Her test came out negative, thank the lord
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                          02/06/14
                          I'm actually fine. I was a little overwhelmed with the whole thing, but I took a step back.
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